Muslim family suffer in the current era of the problems and the difficulties of living has ridden the security of the family and cohesion, and perhaps even led to the band between the parents, and the disintegration of the house, and the loss of the future of the children.

This study, which discusses the most important reasons that marital problems and how to deal with them, the writer tries to limit those problems and astiqah the most important causes, motives, and the fragmentation of factors.

The most important problem that causes the most severe conflict is the inability of the couple to have children. The causes of this problem are diverse and include a lack of health, the use of birth control, the death of a child, the divorce of the parents, and many others. In most cases, the cause of the problem is not known, and it is not possible to know what is the cause of the problem and how to solve it.

There are many solutions to the problem of having children, and in this study, the writer discusses the most important ones.

The first solution is the most obvious and the most used: to get a baby. This solution is not ideal because it is not possible to know whether the child is going to be healthy, normal, or abnormal. The second solution is to get a second child. This solution is more ideal because it is the only one that is completely voluntary, and the only one that does not have any costs. The third solution is to get a third child.